Sorting out the practical issues of relationship breakdown…
- regular contact with children for both parents
- shared parenting and care in future years
- property and finances
…in a way which is fair to both of you
You may have been advised by the courts to use mediation to sort things out – or you may wish to use mediation because you are aware of the benefits of making your own arrangements. The following information is designed to tell you more about what will happen in mediation and the costs of mediation with our organisation.
What happens
We usually see each of you separately to start with so that you both have the same opportunity to talk through your issues with the mediator, and the mediator can find out about your particular situation and concerns. (We can offer a joint appointment if you prefer.)
After that, if you’re both agreeable and if we feel that mediation is right for the two of you, you will be asked to attend one or more appointments together.
Following mediation we will write up the agreements you reach into a formal document and this can become the basis of a court order if you feel you may need one, for example in financial and property matters.
The Benefits of Mediation
- A constructive approach, avoiding lengthy and costly legal action
- A chance to iron out misunderstandings and clarify issues
- Improved communication between the two of you
- An opportunity to sort things out in a non-intimidating atmosphere
- A way of reducing the stress and anxiety that can come with the end of a relationship
- A means of making your own decisions
- Sorting things out through mediation is less costly than going through the courts in both financial and emotional terms.